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How long should we wait to date after divorce? That is one problem that is probably not given enough thought. Far too many times, people go through divorce and the first thing they want, is to find someone else. It all seems like a good idea at the time, but if you take careful consideration, it makes more sense to wait until the proper time. Youll save yourself some time and heartache that way, if you just become patient, and wait.

After my divorce, from a marriage of 28 years, I felt like I needed to make up for lost time. I thought of all those years of sitting at home alone with the kids, while my husband was doing his own thing. I deserved to have a good time, right? It was my turn to have some fun and kick up my heels! My kids were all grown now, why not have some fun! It should be easy to find me a man like I always wanted, I just needed to put myself out there!

The only problem was, even though I was still a slender attractive lady, I was now 45. I found the men in the bar that I liked were all interested in the much younger women, at least 10 20+ years younger than them. I could not compete against that in my wildest dreams!

To begin with, I was shopping in all the wrong places, and shopping before my time. I did meet some men over the next year or so in the bars, and got involved in four different relationships. But all four failed miserably. I was totally destroyed by the time the fourth one had ended and was depressed and desperate. I wanted man so bad in my life, so he could make me happy. I kept wondering what was so wrong with me, and what was I doing wrong? Why was this happening to me?

What I discovered was that having a man in my life was about the last thing that I needed. I was too dependent and needy, and my vulnerability made me a prime target for those sweet talking men in the bars. What I really needed was to spend some time alone with myself, and get to know myself better, and God. So that is what I did, and I have not regretted it one bit. It was one of the most intelligent moves I made. Yes, I got really lonely at times, but I had to learn to become comfortable in my own skin, and God showed me how to love myself and others. God taught me a lot during this time of being alone in the dessert with Him. I learned to fellowship with other Christian friends, and stay away from the bars. As a result I was much happier, and knew the friends I was among now, were true friends who really cared and people I could depend upon. That is worth its weight in gold alone! We all need the support of like minded believers, to help keep us on track and hold us accountable. It is so easy to get off track, and loose our way.

I have heard that you need to stay single one year for every five years you are married, in order to heal and get rid of any excess baggage. During the healing period, you need to fill your mind with the thoughts of the Lord, and look to him for guidance as well. You can do this by studying his word each day, and spending time in prayer. As far as the equation, I dont know if it is really very reliable. But I do know that with the help of the Lord, it was pretty accurate for me. I was married 28 years, and I was single for 6 years before I was really ready as a mature Christian to be in a relationship again.

God wants us to learn to put him first in our lives, then all the things we want, will added unto us. But we truly have to seek Him with all our hearts, and live a life that is pleasing to Him. Then things will eventually fall into place when the Lord knows you are ready. I am glad I waited on the Lord, rather than trying to take matters into my own hands, and picking a wrong person. That is all God wants, is for us to trust Him, and then at the proper time it will happen. I trust that He will bring the right person into my life at exactly the right time. Until them I am enjoying life with no regrets.

Nancy is a Master Certified Christian Life Coach and specializes in helping single women put their lives back together and finding their true purpose in life. She loves helping others. You can visit her web site at http://www.Godsguidance4singles.com

A great advantage of car leasing is the potential to enable people to drive the cars they want, but can't necessarily afford to buy outright. This alone makes it a very attractive purchasing method for many individuals and start-up businesses wanting to make a positive, professional impression by driving an executive vehicle. Contract hiring also allows people to easily change their cars more frequently than through traditional buying and selling. This means that as well as being able to upgrade as your circumstances or preferences change, it's also possible to never drive a car that's more than 3 years old so you can benefit from having the manufacturers warranty to cover maintenance costs and never have the inconvenience or expense of needing to take the car for an MOT.

Off Balance Sheet Funding
Under contract hire, your vehicles do not appear on your company's balance sheet as they are owned by the contract hire company. The removal of capital assets from your balance sheet can enhance a company's gearing (borrowing) ratio. Simultaneously, your business image can benefit from employee use of a high specification vehicle. If your business is in a strong financial position at the end of the lease period, you can choose to make the final payment for the outstanding amount of the guaranteed minimum future value determined at the start of the contract and add the vehicle to your assets at that time. If your company will be of more benefit without the ownership of the vehicle, you can return the vehicle and start a new contract on a replacement model of your choosing.

Fixed Monthly Cost
A fixed monthly payment is charged over the life of the contract and the initial up front payment is normally just three month's rental. This payment is calculated by considering the cost of the vehicle, the anticipated mileage and it's future value at the end of the hire period. Fixed monthly costs for the period of the contract makes budgeting much easier and you do not have the added worry of unexpected high payment demands. Additionally, more accurate budgeting improves your company's cash flow allowing flexibility in other margins. Any extra mileage is paid at the conclusion of the lease period, rather than in additional monthly charges. By ensuring employees keep to the agreed mileage limit, there will be no top up fee needed at the end of the contract.

VAT Benefits
Contract hire has many VAT benefits that can be passed on directly to customers. As contract hire companies are able to claim back the VAT on the purchase price of any new car, once the vehicle is on the road, they can make a claim back of one hundred percent of the VAT on the servicing aspect of the rental price and fifty percent of the finance rental cost. This is a real bonus to businesses, in comparison to vehicles owned directly by the company, which are deemed assets.

Reducing Your Financial Risks
It is essential to manage the risks involved in running a vehicle fleet and by opting for contract hire you are able to do precisely that. Contract Hire enables you to simply pay the monthly fixed rental price and insure and fuel the vehicles. At the end of the lease period, a further lease can be taken out on new, replacement vehicles, reducing the likelihood of any being taken off the road for maintenance as would be ordinarily expected as they age and preventing the need to make good any wear and tear that would be expected with increased age and mileage of a vehicle. This ensures your fleet is always made up of top specification, high performing and excellent condition vehicles.

Contract Hire can be a sound financial decision for a business that requires use of a car or van and the flexibility to regularly change the motor vehicles in use, ensuring a professional image with high quality vehicles always representing the company. Contract Hire is the leasing of a vehicle to a business (usually VAT registered), for a fixed period of time with a pre-defined mileage at a fixed monthly rental. The price is based on the agreement length, estimated mileage and the value of the vehicle once the contract has been completed. Maintenance packages are sometimes included, however suitability will depend on your mileage and general usage of the vehicle.

Lease and Contract Hire is the best way to find a new vehicle today. At http://www.LeaseAndContractHire.com you will find 1000's of car leasing, and contract hire car offers to choose from.

French kissing is probably one of the most romantic and sensual activity that a couple can enjoy. Everyone likes to be kissed, especially women. Lips are also one of the most sensitive parts on a human body, and it is a great way to kick starts foreplay with your partner.

A good passionate French kissing can show how much affection and love that you have for your partner. Therefore, it is important to know how to kiss well. There is basically nothing right or wrong in kissing, just personal preference. Try kissing your partner a few times and see how she kisses and which way she prefers.

So what is French kissing? It is a kissing where you also use your tongue to add some fun into it. So let me just share with you a really simple guide to kiss well:

1.Relax your body. Try to calm yourself down if it is the first time you are kissing. By relaxing your body, the kissing motion will not be tense and she will not think that she is kissing a dead fish!

2.Bring your face near to her. You can start by stroking her hair; slowly position your head near her and open your lips slightly. Once her lips are near your mouth, Open your mouth and put your tongue out around an inch or two.

3.Now tilt your head sideway so that your nose will not be blocking you from kissing her. Circle your tongue around her lips and then go into your partners mouth.

4.Do not keep your tongue still, as it is a major turn off. Keep moving your tongue passionately and explore her inner mouth and tongue. You can also try flicking your tongue over your partners.

Practice makes perfect. As I have said earlier, different people have different preference on the ways to kiss. But be assured that after both you and your partner have kissed a couple of times, both of you will know how to please each other more with your techniques on kissing.

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